Um, hi!! Hope this isn't awkward or anything. WHY AM I SO BAD AT BLOGGING ALL OF A SUDDEN??? Member when you guys were all like, "OMG WHY IS SHE POSTING 13 TIMES A DAY?!?!?" Now it's like, 3 years in between each post.
Lots of stuff has happened.
-- I am now 29! The last year of my twenties. I started freaking out about this around 24 February. (you'll note 25 Feb is my birthday.) It's really scary for some reason. I think it seems like once you hit 30, things need to get serious. Like, I still haven't figured out who I am or what I want to do. Will I ever figure it out? How do you know what you want?
It's a stressful time for a 29-year old girl living in Vermont. (That's me.)
-- I am no longer working at Planned Parenthood. Changes! Crazy changes! I still fully haven't accepted this as a part of my life....... which is okay, maybe. I was really sad and angry while I was still working there and now I still feel sad and angry about not working there. I think it'll all come together in the long run. Everything happens for a reason. No regrets. Still think they're an amazing organization doing amazing things.
-- I'm listening to The Beatles now which is something I rarely do. I'm enjoying it.
-- Had to go out to Mike's in Hartland this morning to get coffee because our coffee maker is broken! Sad, sad time. I was going to make coffee last weekend and noticed there were ants pretty much covering the whole thing. I thought, "hm, that's weird." We had a bad ant takeover of the house like the first week of May, but I did some deep cleaning, some cold hard killing, and some peppermint oil spraying and they left! Had to put all our toothbrushes and toothpastes in plastic ziplock bags because the ants were EVERYWHERE! It was cray! Sprayed the whole bathroom down with vinegar. And they really weren't a problem anymore. Until Sunday. When, after thinking, "hm, that's weird," I opened up the back of the coffee maker to find a giant ant nest inside. THAT'S RIGHT. A giant ant nest. With a billion ants carrying around eggs and nest pieces and whatever else they carry. My next thought was, "okay I'm gonna make Ben deal with this."
I started making breakfast like normal. Ben came down and I told him about the ant nest. He was in shock. How could this have happened without us noticing?! It had only been a week since we last made coffee! So, he brought the coffee maker over to the sink and drowned all the ants, scrubbed out of the back of it real good. However, during this process some part inside must have gotten wet, because now it won't turn on. Which, I was a LITTLE bit hoping for... because I don't know if I could make coffee after seeing that ant nest in there.
Anyways, my allergies were real bad this morning, I had a sinus headache, and it was freezing inside the house and I just wanted a hot cup of coffee. So, I knew I had a few dollars in my wallet so I drove to Mike's and got the maple french roast coffee that Speeder and Earl's makes. It's delish. I'm enjoying it right now :)
And we'll probably go out sometime this week to buy a new coffee maker.
-- If we are friends on Facebook or Instagram you may have noticed that Ben and I took an epic cross-country road trip back in April/May!! It was a semi-spontaneous adventure with the purpose being to see the country and to see Ben's family!! It was a pretty incredible time. Major cities/landmarks we hit were:
- Chicago
- The Badlands
- Mt. Rushmore
- Devil's Tower
- Yellowstone National Park
- Idaho Falls, ID
- Craters of the Moon
- Boise, ID
- Twin Falls, ID
- Antelope Island, UT
- Salt Lake City, UT
- Dead Horse Point
- Arches National Park
- Santa Fe, NM
- Austin, TX
- Avery Island, LA
- New Orleans, LA
- Waffle House
- Fair Hope, AL
- Great Smoky Mountains
- Brooklyn, NY
WOW! The whole trip was like, "WHAT!" I just couldn't believe it was actually happening. You'll also notice three of those major cities happen to be where some of my amazing college roommates live!!! So I got to see Kerianne and Noel, Elizabeth and Noah, Aliya and Eric, and Joe! It was wonderful.
We had wanted to go on a long road trip together for a while. We just love being together and love going on adventures, so it only made sense. It was a lot of really long driving days... some days like, 16 or 17 hours in the Prius. But, there were also some relaxing days. Time spent with family was great. I got to meet a lot of Ben's family I had never met before :) And I also got to meet my three adorable nephews who affectionately called me Aunti Jewelry, which I was not opposed to. It was so fun.
I wish I could post a crap ton of photos, but UGHHH my computer is a lot under the weather right now. (I'm actually posting from Ben's computer...sshhhh!) So, none of my photos are available to me. Hopefully I'll get them posted sometime soon. The computer needs a hard drive replacement, which we ordered yesterday from Amazon. EEK! We've been "backing up" the computer for almost a week and nothing is happening, so we'll probably need to take it to a data recovery person. Too bad the virus people from Hampshire College weren't at my beck and call... Those guys rocked.
Anyways, the trip was amazing. It really is, "America the Beautiful." But only in terms of scenery. My favorite scenery though, was seeing little Ruby again after coming home!! She missed us so much.
OH! I wanted to tell you about one of the things we did on the trip, which I mentioned in the list above: WAFFLE HOUSE. I had never been to a Waffle House before, but I was completely intrigued by them because I had always imagined they were haunted! Like, I had this idea our waitress would be a zombie or something and it would be full of haunted patrons eating haunted food. Like, "once you go in you can never leave..." or something. But - none of this was true. It was a scenario I created in my mind! It was delicious! I had a waffle! We all had waffles! It was pretty much just like being at a Denny's or IHOP in terms of decor and atmosphere and waitstaff. Everything was normal. I would recommend it to you and I would go there again.
If you go to a Waffle House or have been there in the past, post a comment or send me an email about your experience! Anybody have any hauntings there?
-- I've been reading some books! I just finished 'In Cold Blood,' last night. It was intense. I had seen the movie, 'Capote,' back in 2006 (you may think that link goes to the IMDB page about the movie... but NOPE! It goes to my Livejournal entry about when I went to see the movie by myself! Duh! And I said, "It makes me really want to read the book now!" And now, EIGHT years later - I finally have!) and completely loved it. So when my dad said he was going to re-read the book, I said, "I'll read it too and we can have a mini book club!" Which is what happened! I had to get a library card first. Which required absolutely no proof that I live in Hartland! I was shocked. They just let anybody get books there! I love it!
I got two books!
- In Cold Blood
- Under the Banner of Heaven
The second book is written by Jon Krakauer - Hampshire grad!! - and is also about a brutal murder. I was wondering with Ben the other night, "I wonder if there's a limit on how many murder books you can check out at a time.." It's kind of strange.. I haven't read a book for pleasure in a while and then the two first ones I get are about horrific crimes. My next read will be Lena Dunham's autobiography for sure.
Anyways. Reading 'In Cold Blood' was very unsettling to me. I knew the whole story about how Truman Capote fell into a deep alcoholic depression and could never write another book afterwards, and how he maybe became too close to the criminals and how maybe he empathized with them too much.... but it was all really creepy. He describes the murders a couple different ways, referenced them obviously a whole bunch, really gives you a good sense for what happened. But then when the killers are executed, suddenly the book is over. In a way, it makes sense because essentially the story is over. Killers caught, in prison, and executed. But, in another way, it made me feel like they were "getting the easy way out" or something. Because we didn't have to dwell on it the same way we did with the innocent family. I don't know. Yes, that part comes at the end of the book because of chronology... But I wonder if he had put it at the beginning and ended with the family's murder if it would have been a different read. Sort of like a book told backwards. Benjamin Button style.
I don't know. Whatever way you paint the story, it's still horrific and terrifying and tragic. But - I also couldn't put the book down once I started it. I read after that Capote had over 8,000 pages of notes on the case. Incredible.
I'll probably pick the other book up later today. About people killing "in the name of God." Should also be horrific and scary.
-- Anyways. What else can I tell you?? My coffee is gone now. It was just right. So warm and good. Although my feet are freezing.
-- Been watching a lot of TV! I'm not sure if I have mentioned this... but I started watching Hart of Dixie back in November and finally finished the series in March. I was very embarrassed to admit to the world (and myself) that I was totally obsessed with this show. But I was. I LOVED it. It was just a really silly, nice show. There was no violence, no swearing, no stress. That's what I like. Just small-town drama and lots of hilarious hijinks. After the show ended, I didn't really know what to do with myself. I was empty inside. So here's what I have watched/caught up on:
- Girls (season 4)
- Downton Abbey (season 5)
- Finding Carter (season 1, season 2 airing now)
- Grace and Frankie (season 1)
- New Girl (season 4)
- Broad City (season 1 (twice), and season 2)
I've been productive, as you can see. Really enjoyed Grace and Frankie, which is a Netflix original. And TOTALLY loved Broad City which is soo funny. I also watched about 10 straight hours of The Tonight Show with Jimmy Fallon one night when I was up with a nasty stomach bug. It made things a little easier.
-- Alright! I think that's it for now. This has been longer than I imagined and now I'm hungry.
So! Please keep me updated on all your wonderful lives! I really do miss staying in touch with the blog. I know I say this every time, but I'll try and blog more.
Also, one of my favorite Beatles songs might be, 'We Can Work it Out.' Good stuff. And somehow, in Ben's gigantic collection of Beatles songs, 'Rocky Raccoon' has managed to play FOUR times. I mean, what's up with that?! (Josh Delano civic oration reference there. To Josh, if he's reading, or to Maria, if she's reading."
Hope you all have great rest of the weeks! I think mine will be pretty good, hopefully. Going to have dinner with some friends tonight and meet their new baby cows.
Take care, friends! Talk to you again soon.
Love,
Julie
